I started this blog with the URL which reads 'My Watan' meaning My Nation. I used this space mainly to write about the major problems that (still)plague India and discuss ideas/solutions for the same. Somewhere down the line, the focus in this blog became Girls; Young girls and most importantly, the role Education plays in shaping the life of these Young girls. I believe that educating young girls in India is one of the most important solutions to overcome many of the hurdles we are facing as a developing country today! Dont believe me? Watch the videos, read the poems and my personal experiences!

Hope is a good thing, may be the best of things!

Saturday, January 26, 2008

Look who's complaining ..


I am really pondering about where and how to start off....After all, its my India... my pride, my country, my identity...

I feel India in my heart, my hands...

I see it with my open eyes, helpless hands and a painful heart!!!!

I feel India as I walk past those old huts , still rooted at the same spot, as they were 10 years ago...
I see India in the faces i smile at again and again.., the same faces i have been smiling at the 'kirana' or 'stationery' stores where i bought my toffees and pencils since i was a kid...The dry smile never seems to fade, the emptiness in the eyes is eternal..but there is a difference- an extra pair of lines(read wrinkles) drawn across the forehead and under the eyes...
For most of these people, life never changes...it just goes on and on!!
I see India in the rugged hands of my 'kaamwali baai' ...... in the tears of the lil' girl with messy hair and torn clothes,who stops by my car window asking for a rupia or 2... in the queue of beggars outside the temple with 'katoris' in their hands and.. in the group of kids running behind a cycle tyre(or actually, i must say-the plastic tube) trying to make the best toy out of it!!!

While some of us complain about not having the latest mobile phone/gadget, or do worse-'brag' about havin them,flashing and endorsing them... there are still a few those who dont know wat it feels like to have or feel a mobile/phone in their hands or hear voices thru distances... I feel India in those hands and ears which are yearning to do so.

I see India in the autowalas who look more of 'goondas' , fighting for a rupee or 2 , for change-'chillar' as they call it, and demanding almost double rates or as they wish!!!!

And oh yeah, how can I ever forget our very own magnificent and endurance-proven 2-wheelers supporting 2 adults and 2 kids, or 3 kids is it????(talk abt the Indian-automobile manufacturing wonders)!!!!

The oh-so-exciting Bollywood and the so-called 'news' channels that cant stop talking abt it.....redefining 'news' and making it synonomous with 'gossip'...

I still see most of us complaining.. blaming each other... throwing away responsibilty and expecting some one else to be a Hero or a Leader

And when we dont find one, we are ready to WAIT as its our life-long habit, an Indian trait!!

Wait, to fetch buckets of water, to get rashion every month, at govt. offices, at banks, at the signals.... well,almost everywhere!!!

We dwell and enjoy, rather relish our mediocricity, taking pride in our snobbish and lazy attitudes....

Well I need to stop now... I can go on and on and on and on abt it...

Or may I could write a bit of the conclusion that I've got- 'Yeh India hai boss'

Well, tats the conclusion I have got from others... NOT WHAT I HAVE MADE...

Cos I being ME, can never lose hope...

MY CONCLUSION- India is rising... The Golden bird is about to take off...

I wanna be a part of it!!! DO YOU??????

5 comments:

Smriti Srivastava said...

Yes I sure do.... :)

This is a very interesting blog. And you have beautifully written about the everyday reality of an India we dont dwell in. Such marked contrasts on the same street...surely, u cant find anything like that ANYWHERE in the world.

Sure India is rising... but at what cost... like u tried to say, "Rich are getting rich and poor are remaining...just there".

I would say, you started out with terrific intentions...and it is hard to put out your entire feeling in just one blog. I can relate to what you wanted to ACTUALLY put in. I wasn't brave enough to attempt starting on the topic...kudos to you for trying.I think the ending was a bit abrupt. I suggest, you break it down a few moulds...put it in a series...and just don't be afraid to express yourself on this front. You are doing a goood job!! :)

Diva said...

I had read somewhere-'Friends are those who know u better than u kno urselves'
You amaze me once again Deeds!!!!
You understood exactly wat i intended.. I started out on a happy note...but my mind just drifted!!!

But as u have already said , I am plannin for a series of sorts... and I am so glad I took off on this journey... It really took a long time to just start...But, I dont wanna wait anymore... THANKS DEEDS!!
You and me are can be Heroes too
Lets prove it ,shall we???
:D
Hugs and kisses!!!!

Smriti Srivastava said...

WHOA!!!! Where do thanks come in from??? ;)

What do you mean CAN BE HEROES??? We are already HEROES... what we need to become is "CAN DO, WILL DO HEROES..."

Peace!!! ;)

Priya Joyce said...
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Priya Joyce said...

Nice blog Diva loved to read it. I have now found someone like me.

ur post has struck the correct point.
Ye its like someone having bread but crying for cake. someone who has basic amenities but is complaining for luxury.
Hats off to u.

am blogrolling u



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